To figure out

Does it really work,
when you forgive and forget,
or do memories linger,
to the night on your death bed?

What is fear,
and why should we be scared,
the choices we made,
and the choices we had,
they all have passed,
should we wallow in fear,
or should we move on from here?

For the way i think,
i now can blink,
because the thoughts i have,
are now in ink,

I'd like to move on now,
to explore even farther,
for i can't judge my life now,
because i still am a toddler,

But should we rush,
to be mature,
to plan our life,
and also our future,
or should we just laugh,
leave out the sorrow,
live for today,
as though there's no tomorrow?